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balancing act

Beeing a leader or a coworker is a constant cooperation / balancing act with others

In my experience one of the more important areas to address is the balance between feeling and logic,

in my vocabulary Heart and Mind

Heart and Mind Management

Heart and Mind Management provides Assessment, Coaching, Training, Workshops supporting in management and organisation effectiveness

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Leadersship 2024-03-05

Leadership is the way you motivate a group of persons in order to achieve defined targets

-  By the ability to inspire others

-  By presenting ideas both own and others’

-  By respecting and listening to the members of the group

-  By giving directions

-  By your and the coworkers mutual trust

-  By creating an environment where everyone feels respected and trusted

Use both your feelings and your logic to decide the actions to take

Feel, Think and Act

-  Leadership is not being the best, it is about making everyone better, to
    create a climate where everyone can contribute in their best way all the
    time, whether you are there or not

-  Treat everyone with respect, courtesy, politeness and kindness.

-  Listen to what others have to say before expressing your viewpoint. Never
    interrupt. Use the coworkers’ ideas to create change and improvements.

-  Treat people with respect, do not insult.

-  Give positive feedback a lot more than negative feedback.

-  Respect employee’s personal time. Avoid calling them after work hours or
    constantly expecting them to work late.

-   Show interest in their professional and personal development.

Promote an open discussion climate where everybody is encouraged to present their ideas (if you havent heard an idea how can you judge if it is a good one or not)

 

It is important to take good care of all ideas regardless of who presents them

 

 Remember you have one brain and the group have several brains

Leadership a multifaceted occupation

High performing team

As a leader you need to work with your coworkers to create High performing team i.e. a group of people with specific roles and complementary talents and skills, aligned with and committed to  common targets, who consistently show high levels of cooperation and innovation. All this produce superior results.

A group where everybody is:

Soft Steering with Targets and Values

Coworkers are humans so when steering them, there needs to be a balance between measurable targets and feelings. Especially when informing about theese targets, you need to make room for soft issues in the communiction when you try to get commitment

Ask:

1.Is the target probable to meet (what is hindering and what is promoting fulfilment)

2.Try to cover information of Way, What and How (to motivate and explain) why it is important that the targets are reached

3.What can I do to do the promote the possibility of target fullfilment

4.Can the coworker commit to the target 

Dependence of alcohol, pills, drugs, gaming and mental ill-health

The following needs to be done:

-  Create a policy regarding these problems

-  Inform coworkers of the policy

-  Depending on the problems you face, you might need:

    -  Define dangerous use

    -  Investigation and assessment

    -  Motivational treatment

    -  Motivational talks 

    -  Addiction treatment

    -  Relapse prevention

Exhaustion/problems with the mental health, an increasing problem in society

 

Sometimes the this is caused by performance based self esteem

 

•You often compare yourself to others

•You value yourself according to your achievements.

•You don’t allow yourself not to achieve the best all the time

•You don’t rest even if you are tired

•You feel useless if you fail with a task

Performance based self esteem can lead to exhaustion

Solution focused conversations

is an approach to communication and problem-solving that focuses on identifying and implementing solutions rather than dwelling on problems.

 

1.Together create a preferred picture of how the coworker wants the future to look like.

2.Strengths and Resources: Discuss together things that the coworker does already today and works well.

3.Positive Language: What is working well today? Don’t focus on the problems

4.Goal Setting: Setting clear and achivable targets together so that individuals can work towards positive outcomes

5.Small Steps and Progress: Breaking down larger challenges into smaller, more manageable steps, celebrating and acknowledging even small progress is encouraged to build momentum.

6.Collaboration: Between the coaching person and the coach

7.Acceptance: Are you understanding and accepting the problem?

8.Brief and Time-Limited: The goal is to bring about positive change in a relatively short period.

When different kinds of dependencies occur, don’t be afraid to ask experts for advice. It is important that leaders are involved, but there might be someone that can support or assist you in your role as a leader.

To be a leader means that you need to live in a constant balancing act

Integrity

Confidence

Courage

Empathy

Drive

Discipline

Vision

Altruism

Adaptability

Humility

Thoughtfulness

Perspective

Appreciation

Flexibility

Realist

Self Care

Prioritise

As a leader there is often too much to do, then it is important to prioritise in a structured way

Depending on the importance and the hurry of an activity your responsive action needs to be different

 

Remember that the relation to coworkers and the your direct manager often fits in the action quadrant

Everyone needs to feel safe (physical, emotional or psychological safety).

Physical

 
A newly employed person needs to know and adapt to all safety information and instructions.

The new employee in the first line needs to understand and act according to existing rutines

The following things are important to start up with:

1.  Compliance Assistance (information and instruction display)

2.  Incident Reporting (how it is done)

3.  Emergency Preparedness (eg. emergency exits, emergency meeting
     place
)

Emotional or psychological safety

It is created through building trust in a working group and it involves a combination of actions, behaviours and communication that demonstrate

-  integrity

-  sincerity

-  reliability

-  consistency

-  commitment

-  competence

Here are some ways to create trust:

 

-  Be Honest and Transparent

-  Follow Through on Commitments

-  Demonstrate Competence

-  Act with Integrity

-  Listen Actively

-  Respect Others

-  Be Reliable

-  Admit Mistakes

-  Maintain Confidentiality

-  Build Relationships

A happy and positive person feeling safe does a better job

Create and promote a positive  climate where everyone feels safe, listened to, trusted and seen

– and positive feedback is used a lot

A happy and positive person feeling safe does a better job

 

Save the negative feedback to the improvement situation when you can look upon it as improvement possibilities

-  Bring positive criticism in a group

-  Negative criticism face-to-face

Building trust

Building trust builds on authenticity, logic, and empathy. A deficit in any of theese shakes the foundation

-  Empathy - See, Listen, Respect, Concentrate and Focus on the person
  in question

-  Logic comes in two forms

     -  Quality

      -  Communication of the logic (start with your point in a crisp way
          and then give supporting evidence)

-  Authenticity - Be you

Micro management

If we manipulate or steer in detail people will give you only what you pay for

If we inspire, let people take responsibility and make them feel appreciated they will give us more than you ask for




They will give you the moon

Respect

Respect is a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities and achievements. The trust needs to be earned – it doesn’t come with the appointment


Respect is a big word. There needs to be mutual respect within the group but also mutual respect between the group and the leader


A succesful lead group will earn trust from other colleagues and customers

How to start a leadership

Visualisation and Communication

-  To see, to be seen and listened to is needed – in  detail it is described in
    Visualisation and Communication

Process Review

-  It is important to improve processes in a structured way - this is described in
    Process Review

Self Leadership

-  Everyone is a leader in his or her life. It is up to you and no one else to create the
    working experience that you want to have. To have the entire responsibility gives you
    the power in your life, it is entirely up to you

-  You are responsible to be and keep being engaged

-  Together we stand tall, alone we fall. Teach to ask for help when needed, and give help
    to others when they ask

-  Work with and improve your superpowers (the things you have defined as your
    superpowers)

-  Your achievements are important but how you treat your colleagues is as important
    (it is the total output from your group that really counts)

To develop yourself into working with Self Leadership

 

You need to decide

•What to do

•Why do it

How to do it

Develop yourself into the best person possible

Also means that you have a responsibility to develop yourself into the best person possible

1.  The person identifies

      -  What are my strengths today

      -  What do I want to improve

2.   Discuss with your superior

      -  What are the surrounding strengths

      -  Is there anyone that is skilled in what you want to learn ?

3.   Decide together with your superior

      -  Interest and Ambition from the organisation and from you as a person

4.    Decide yourself

       -  What area to improve

5.    Develop a plan of how the improvement shall be performed

       -  Agree on the plan with your superior

       -  Can he /she help in any way

Areas to keep in mind perhaps to develop

Education and Learning

Pursue formal education, attend workshops, take courses or engage in self-directed learning. This can be through traditional institutions, online platforms or by reading books and articles.

Skill Development

Identify the skills you want to enhance or acquire and engage in activities or training programs that promote skill development. This could include technical skills, interpersonal skills, leadership skills and more.

Professional Development

Attend conferences, seminars and networking events in your field. Seek mentorship or coaching to receive guidance and insights from experienced professionals.

Goal Setting

Set goals for yourself remember they shall be SMART

-  Specific

-  Measurable

-  Achievable

-  Relevant

-  Time-bound

Break them down to smaller, manageable tasks and regularly evaluate your progress. This gives you feedback that you are moving in the right direction and increases your motivation.

Health and Well-being:

Physical and mental wellbeing through regular exercise

Things to ask yourself

-  Is the diet you eat balanced?

-  Do you get sufficient sleep?

-  Do you do sufficient Physical Activity?

-  Do you connect with people that stimulate you?

-  Do you have the time to reflect and do you?

-  Are you motivated and are you becoming better in motivating yourself?
-  Establish a better balance between work and leisure
-  Learn to handle worry and annoyances better
-  Improve your self-esteem and your self-assurance                                           
-  Understand how your values steer you
-  Take a bigger responsibility for your needs
-  Improve your state of mind and achieve more

A healthy body and mind contribute significantly to personal development.

Networking and Relationship Building

-  Build and maintain positive relationships with others. Networking can
  expose you to new ideas, opportunities and perspectives. Interacting
  with a diverse group of people can enhance your communication and
  interpersonal skills, as well as understand other persons and their
  behaviours better

Self-Reflection and Meditation:

 

-  Regularly reflect on your strengths, weaknesses, values and
  aspirations. Understanding yourself better allows you to make
  informed decisions about your personal and professional development.

Challenges and Risk-Taking:

 

-  Embrace challenges and be willing to take calculated risks. Stepping out
  of your comfort zone can lead to personal growth and flexibility

Volunteering and Community Engagement:

 

-  Contribute to your community through volunteer work. It provides a
  sense of purpose, exposes you to new experiences and allows you to
  develop empathy and social skills.

Time Management:

 

-  Develop effective time management skills. Prioritize tasks, set
  deadline and allocate time to efficiently accomplish your goals to
  reduce stress

Continuous Feedback:

 

-  Seek and receive feedback from others. Constructive criticism can
  provide valuable insights and help you identify areas for improvement.

Financial Literacy:

-  Develop a solid understanding of personal finance. Learn about
  budgeting, investing and financial planning to secure your financial well-being.

Problem Solving Methodologies

When we see a problem we tend to look under the lamp  and to  jump into an early conclusion of how to solve it

 

It feels good to do something about it  quickly

 

but give it a little time and thinking to really solve the problem with a suitable solution to ensure that the problem will not reoccur

Core Principles

-  Concentrate on solving reoccurring root causes rather than solving just symptoms

-  Do not ignore the importance of treating symptoms for short term relief

-  There can be, and are, often more than one root cause

-  Analyse using the 5 W and H method (Ask Who?, What?, Where?, When?, Why?
    And How? Did the problem show up?)

-  Be systematic and look for evidence to back up the found root cause

-  Try to find a way to solve the root cause to prevent it from appearing again

When performing a Root cause analysis it is important to take a comprehensive and holistic approach and to use all the knowledge available in the entire organisation  (Cross functional)

Root Cause

5 W + H

-  Who does it concern?

-  What happened?

-  When did it happen?

-  Where did it happen?

-  Why did it happen?

 

-  How did it happen?

Change analysis

-  

Analyse the changes that has led up to the problem

-  Looking on a longer period of time leading up to the problem  

-  This is effective when there are a number of root causes

Fish bone analysis

A way to analyse root causes is the Fish bone analysis (Ishikewa diagram analysis), where you start with the problem and work your way back through different possible causes of the problem

Categories to consider in the analysis

-  Machine (equipment, technology)

-  Method (process)

-  Man/Mind(physical or knowledge)

-  Measurement (inspections)

-  Management /money power (leadership)

-  Maintenance

-  Product/Service

-  Price

-  Promotion(Marketing)

-  Process (System)

-  People (Personal)

-  Physical evidence

-  Performance

-  Surroundings (Environment)

-  Suppliers

-  Skills

A3 method

A way to document

1.Define the problem

2.Current state

3.Wanted State

4.Analyse the root causes

5.Generate and test countermeasures

6.Implement and sustain improvements (implementation plan)

7.Follow up results

8.Standardization

9.Lessons learned

1.Define the problem

 

The first step in the A3 method is to define the problem clearly, consistently and objectivly using data and facts to support your definition. You need to describe why the problem is important.

What is the gap between current state and wanted state.

 

 

What, Where, When, How much and Why

2.Current state

How is the current situation or process related to the problem?

Can relevant data, observations and information of current situation or process be shown and illustrated

3.Wanted State (Goals or Target improvements)

 

What are the wanted state Target values when it works well, that the organization or individuals aim to achieve.

4.Analyse the root causes (Root cause analysis)

Next step is to investigate and identify the underlying reasons or factors contributing to the problem, the rootcause. Avoid symptoms and effects in the analysis.

You need to dig deep into underlying factors that contribute to the problem (e.g. by using 5 W + H, fishbone diagrams, Pareto charts)

You shall identify  and prioritise the most critical causes needed to adress.

Avoid jumping into conclutions without having sufficient facts and evidence.

5.Generate and test a countermeasures

Generate possible solutions to the problem addressing the root causes identified during the analysis phase. The solution shall be specific actions that can be taken to mitigate the problem also covering who is responsable for implementing them.

Test the countermeasures and see if they have the intended effect.

6.Implement and sustain improvements (Implementation Plan)

Detail how you plan to implement the the proposed countermeasures including timelines, responsible parties and resources needed to establish processes to ensure the improvements are sustained over time.

7.Follow up results

Once the countermeasures are implemented, describe the result both quantitative and qualitative. Analyse whether the problem is solved and whether future adjustments are needed

8.Standardization

If the countermeasures are successful, discuss how processes or practices are updated and implemented to prevent them from reocurring.

Assure this becomes a part of the continuous improvement work.

9.Lessons Learned

Reflect on what you have learned by solving this problem.

Have you discovered key insightes in need of spreading?

The A3 method is a way to document a structured problem-solving or improvement methodology, guiding individuals or organizations through a systematic process of identifying, analyzing, and addressing issues to achieve positive change.

Trial and error

A problem-solving or learning method that involves experimenting with different approaches until the right one is found.

 

While trial and error can be effective, it may not be the most efficient or practical method in all situations, especially when the cost of errors is high or when there are alternative, more systematic problem-solving approaches available.

The ”God complex”

No matter how complicated the problem is, you have an overwhelming belief that you know the solution

 

This belief is widely spread in our society

 

The world is simply far too complicated to understand

 

We belive we understand the entire world – but we never do

If we accept the fact that we don’t know everything, a very powerful way to develop a solution is to use the evolution method  (trial and error)

Variation and selection is a very powerful method


 

1.Select a solution

2.Create variation of this solution

3.Test what works and what does not

4.Throw the solutions not working away

5.Create variations around the solutions that work

6.Test what works and what does not

After 30 generations you have a stable solution!

Ref: Tim Harford: Trial, error and the God complex | TED Talk

A person coming back from a long sick leave

-  People having been on a long sick leave need to be focused on when they come back
    and start working again.

-  Depending on the reason for the long sick leave, the Welcome Program needs to be
   tailored-made to each individual.

-  Everybody needs to feel safe, especially those who have been on a long sick leave.

 

 

The essential thing is that the person does not fall back into sick leave

Plan for a meeting with the person one-on-one prior to coming back (manager and person)

Discuss:

-  What tasks will the person start working with

-  What working hours are suitable to start up with

-  Is a mentor wanted/needed ?

-  Is the workspace he or she had suitable to come back to?

      -  Noice

      -  Desturbanses

Solution focused conversations

is an approach to communication and problem-solving that focuses on identifying and implementing solutions rather than dwelling on problems.


A way to communicate that  I recommend:

1.Together create a preferred picture of how the coworker wants the future to look
    like.

2.Strengths and Resources: Discuss together things that the coworker does already
    today and works well.

3.Positive Language: What is working well today? Don’t focus on the problems

4.Goal Setting: Setting clear and achievable targets together so that individuals can
    work towards positive outcomes

5.Small Steps and Progress: Breaking down larger challenges into smaller, more
    manageable steps, celebrating and acknowledging even small progress is
    encouraged to build momentum.

6.Collaboration: Between the coached person and the coach

7.Acceptance: Are you understanding and accepting the problem

8.Brief and Time-Limited: The goal is to bring about positive change in a relatively
    short period.

Ref. The International Journal of Solution Focused Brief Practices an open source. link: https://digitalscholarship.unlv.edu/journalsfp/

Create a Welcome Program

It Needs to cover safty

Physical safty

 
A newly employed person needs to know and adapt to all safety information and instructions.

The new employee in the first line needs to understand and act according to existing rutines

The following things are important to start up with:

1.  Compliance Assistance (information and instruction display)

2.  Incident Reporting (how it is done)

3.  Emergency Preparedness (eg. emergency exits, emergency meeting
     place
)

Emotional or psychological safety

It is created through building trust in a working group and it involves a combination of actions, behaviours and communication that demonstrate

-  integrity

-  sincerity

-  reliability

-  consistency

-  commitment

-  competence

Here are some ways to create trust:

 

-  Be Honest and Transparent

-  Follow Through on Commitments

-  Demonstrate Competence

-  Act with Integrity

-  Listen Actively

-  Respect Others

-  Be Reliable

-  Admit Mistakes

-  Maintain Confidentiality

-  Build Relationships

-  To Make sure that the person coming back from sick leave starts
    making a difference quickly and doesn't fall back into sick leave is
    demanding.

-   It is important that you as a leader take an active role in the
     process.

-   But if needed, ask someone for help and assistance.

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